Tag: strap-on

• Fucking, foreplay, and heteronormativity

  

  The other day I wrote something about having sex with a 20 year old (guy), with the caveat that I had done it before, but only with two other people in my lifetime. A woman I slept with a few times at University commented ‘weren’t we 19 when we met?’ And it drew attention to…

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  November 9, 2017

  Feminism, sex, Uncategorized

  cunnilingus, fingering, foreplay, fucking, Game of Thrones, hetereonormative, heteronormativity, Misfits, penis, PinV, PIV, sex, sexual experience, sexual intercourse, strap-on, the patriarchy, vagina, vaginal intercourse, virginity

• It’s just a little crush

  

  Our first date was the best date I’ve ever had. We went ice skating at Ally Pally ice rink. We got there too early, so walked around the gardens first. I fancied him as soon as I saw him, and I could tell he fancied me too.

  carmenaliblogger

  August 17, 2017

  dating, sex

  90s, 90s nostalgia, break-up, candle wax, chess, dating, ice skating, Jennifer Paige, karaoke, kinky sex, online dating, pegging, strap-on, Tinder

• Dreams Can Come True

  

  I started to realise the double standards around anal, and how some men were expecting us to be willing to be fucked in the arse, when some of them would freak out if you even tried to put a finger in there.

  carmenaliblogger

  July 8, 2017

  dating, Feminism, sex

  90s, 90s nostalgia, anal, Girl Power, pegging, sex, Spice Girls, strap-on